We tend to think of personalized marketing as tailoring content to match what customers want to receive. They have shopped for sweatshirts in the past? Letโs send them emails with dynamic content featuring our best-selling sweatshirts. They used an in-app promo code? Letโs send push notifications since theyโre clearly active mobile app users.
On the other side of the same coin, however, is an additional layer of potential personalizationโwhat they donโt want to receive. You, as a marketer, know your segments. You can send Gen-Z marketing messages featuring straight-leg jeans, while you save the skinny jean content for your Millennials. Yeah, yeahโbeen there, done that.
But, what if you reframe this example? Instead of thinking about tailoring to a specific audience, think about how the same messages are actually tailored to your other audiences. By sending straight-leg jeans to only Gen-Z, youโre not sending that content to audiences that may not be interested.
Now, go one step further. Rather than guessing what certain customers may or may not be interested in (some Millennials like straight-leg jeans), what if you just asked them what content they no longer wanted to receive? Itโs that easy. This is how providing personalized opt-outs for content types can create a highly-individualized customer experience.
Different from Standard Opt-Outs
You might be thinking, โyeah, no duh, you legally have to include unsubscribe options when you send marketing messages. This is old news.โ But, this kind of opt-out is different. Sure, some email unsubscribes provide the option of selecting which content the customer wants to receive, but this is after theyโve already made the decision to unsubscribe from all email communications.
Personalized opt outs are a different concept completely, the most common type being the holiday-themed opt out.
Holiday Opt-Outs
Motherโs Day is a great example of a holiday that, while a cute family day for some, could be incredibly painful for those in complicated relationships with their mothers, those who have lost mothers, those who were hoping to be a mother, etc. Everyone is dealing with their own struggles. So, rather than inundate customers with content that may create a negative attitude towards your brand, ask if theyโre interested in receiving the content.
Blue Bottle, a coffee retailer, sent an email before both Motherโs Day and Fatherโs Day. Without bringing up anything that may be hurtful, they simply offered, with a clear CTA, the option to not receive any emails related to these holidays.

Blue Bottle lets customers opt out, with a clear CTA, but reassures them at the same time that theyโll continue to receive content that isnโt related to Motherโs or Fatherโs Day. Giving customers a holiday opt-out shows that your brand cares and wants every interaction to be as positive as possible.
Uncommon Goods, an online retailer, also gave customers the option to opt-out of sensitive emails related to Fatherโs Day. Not only that, but they provided additional content to help customers during this difficult time.

Uncommon Goods presents a clear CTA at the top, giving customers the immediate option to opt out of all future Fatherโs Day emails. When continuing to scroll, however, customers are given the option to sign up for a virtual class about love and loss. Itโs heartfelt, itโs designed to help, and itโs highly personalized.
But, brands need to be careful about how they design these personalized opt-outs because they can backfireโand have.
When Personalized Opt-Outs Could Do More Harm
Sending these more personal, sensitive emails can be tricky because the optโout email itself could be very triggering and alienating in certain circumstances. With multiple brands now hopping on this personalized opt-out bandwagon, customers could now receive multiple emails mentioning a โhard time.โ As highlighted in the Independent, โ[A] Twitter user told me that the opt-out emails ‘probably started for the right reasons’ but now they find it a ‘constant reminder of a day they would rather keep very low-key.’”
If customers would rather not bring attention to their difficult situations, being reminded of it constantly in their inbox could create a negative relationship with the brands who send them. A balance needs to be struck.
In the future, rather than seeing these opt-outs with deep, emotional copy, maybe theyโll be more straightforward. For example, just a short and sweet โDo you want to opt-out of Motherโs Day content?โ Or, another option would be to ask these questions as soon as a customer signs up for email. Send a quick checklist in your welcome email asking which content they do and do not want to receive, such as which holidays theyโd like to see content for. This way, you donโt have to ask again and the customer isnโt triggered every time a holiday rolls around.
As a brand you have to constantly stay ahead of the curve to make sure youโre not becoming a part of a problem.
Whatโs Next for Personalized Opt-Outs?
Being on the cusp of new trends is paramount if you want to avoid having your brand become part of the noise. So, how can your brand take personalized opt-outs further into new, unexplored territory?
Think about all channels. Weโve seen an uptick in personalized opt-outs via email, but, as a consumer, if I were to opt out of email communications around a specific event, I’d wonder about the other ways a brand can reach me. If I opt out of Fatherโs Day emails, will I still get Fatherโs Day push notifications? Texts? If you opt-out on one channel, you should be able to opt-out everywhere. A cross-channel opt-out would be the ultimate level of personalization, building a 360-degree view of an individual customer.
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